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Rape in India - An Analysis


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Every morning as I open the newspaper there is at least an article on a girl, molested in one or the other part of India.
sometimes in a city, some other in a village.
Sometimes an infant, sometimes a septuagenarian.
No state is an exception, some states lead anyway.
Temples and schools, houses and workplaces all are same for the 2nd gender!


This is a very pathetic state for us as a society. Agreement of this is unequivocal.
Then, why are we as a society unable to solve the problem?
This is the question I try to answer here. I will address this by dissecting the issue, part by part.
Stringent punishment - a deterrent:
Many people have this view, " punish the rapist cruelly so that boys will fear to rape a girl". Most of them rally on the streets to get this done. They are those who really empathize with the victim.
But as research shows, punishment is not a deterrent to crime. However, the lack of punishment is more adverse. So the criminal justice system tries to maintain a fine balance between punishment and reform (of course with its own limitations). In India the punishment aspect is good. But the reform is missing. The fact that, most of the sexual offenders are repeated offenders gives us two conclusions. Punishment is not being a deterrent, reform of rapists is not being done. Those who push for stringent punishments overlook the second conclusion. Increase in the level of punishment may not always lead to desired results. NIRBHAYA ACT is a classic example.
Qualifying crime against women:
Now, as the reform part proves important, where are we failing?
Society has upper hand in reforming or imbibing qualities in a person than the criminal justice system. The criminal justice system is just for the deviants.
For a boy who's seen his mother fear his father,
who's learned that to avoid risk, girls stay away from boys,
who's learned that any amount of revealing clothes is an invitation for sex,
who's learned to see bold women as being interested in men,
who gets emotional in case of his own sister or mother (acts as a protector- assuming women as weak), crimes against women are always qualified.
He is bound to see crimes in a different lens, depending on the victim. He knows who a "family girl" is and who is not. He also holds it an offense to violate the bodily integrity of a "family girl". But he finds no offense to harm the "other type". Worse still, he finds it his responsibility to teach a lesson to such girls.
Now you get the point?
Most of the people don't view molestation as a crime if it is against the "other type". Then how can we expect the crime rate to decrease?
In fact, this is bound to increase because education and modernity among girls is increasing. The "other girls" list is inflating!
 What is the solution?

I have some points. The main and all-encompassing idea being, all of us should be feminists. Cutting across all genders societies must learn to be sensitive to gender discrimination.


  • Teach kids to be gender sensitive.
  • Make kids non-judgmental.
  • Provide good education.
  • Combat patriarchy within the family.
  • Teach a girl to stand up by herself, to be bold and independent than how to sit, how to smile etc.,
The world is changing, the status of women too is transforming. In this state of flux, it is our responsibility to assert the status of women as equals.

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