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A love story or a breakup story?

Some stories are so strange. Neither a common man nor can an expert judge those stories easily. This is one such story for me. Planned to be a plain one without twists and turns. But, most of the times, you plan something and life plans something else for you.
The story 
A girl and a boy entered a relationship without exchanging roses or without saying I LOVE YOU. They chat occasionally and most of the time it was the bliss, of a young love they got. It was not the person but the sense of love that gave happiness to both of them. On those occasional chatting, all they do is make promises and see the voice and the presence of the other. That was enough, and that gave happiness.
Days passed, and only days passed.
The feeling of love and the desire to live together was getting strong in the girl. She is a girl of dreams and ambitions. Her ability to imagine things overshadowed her understanding of reality. She loved the boy truly, sincerely, not the real one but the one in her imagined reality. He was a boy with those qualities she liked. She cannot be blamed for it. Cause that was a long distance relationship, and this is how things work. As her intellectual and emotional learnings grew day by day, the boy of her imagined reality transformed into a man of perfect persona.They are man and woman now. So those occasions where they can talk to each other grew, and they understood each other in reality. The girl got confused. However, she tried to erase her imagination and the love for it. She tried to love the real him. But the things did not work well, the boy got frustrated by the behavior of girl. Now, it is not like "I will do anything for you attitude". It vanished long back. Every trial of the girl to learn her boy and love him counter-acted. It increased doubt in the mind of the girl-"Is he a right man for me?"
The break-up drama begins

The boy proposed a break-up. And the girl got shattered by it. It sounded like she got an answer-" he is not the right man". She agreed to it. But deep inside, her heart was crying and yelling in silence. It might be the same for the boy too. After all, it was a long distance relationship, they could not see the pain of each other. The boy gave an opportunity for the time to heal him. He tried many other girls, got into a relationship. But the girl was struck at that point. Often creating and recreating the break -up dialogs over her mind and analyzing her and his mistakes. Time made her love strong. She imagined her grieving boy and was desperate to go to him and console him. Though she deleted his number, she remembers it. So tried calling him at weak moments, only to get his wrath. The girl did not realize that things can be so plain like that. Promises have no meaning and feelings are just another pastime. Every day before going to bed she reconstructs all her past, analyses it, sometimes cries over it, acts over it and this happened for years.The other side of the story is, as I already mentioned, the boy found a girl and was happy though for a short period. When the girl found that he moved on, it relieved her from the 'cage of guilt' she built for herself that, she betrayed him. But, this did not live long. The boy got another breakup, approached the girl again. The girl got to believe his words if they have to restart a relationship. But she could not believe his words. Afterall, he approached her after his break up.So the break-up continued along with all the sorrow it brought to the girl. Every movie she watched and every quote she read, reminded her of their short-lived sweet moments.Those cycles of imagination-and -action continued and the same mixed results followed. She was confused, desperate and angry. Angry at her helplessness to let it go. Confused by the boy's unpredictable behavior. She was desperately seeking love. All this though did not drag her into a mire of depression. Thanks to god, she is a girl with a vision. Words of loved ones to soothe her helped but her ambitions in life were those which helped her to sail through. These days, the girl seems to have learned the art of healing herself. She gave way for the time to heal everything. She decided to bury her past. She decided to kill all the questions in mind about her past. Restrained herself from acting on her thoughts and seems to recover. This seems like an end to the story. But the problem is, this was the case so many times. Every end was a new beginning in their break-up story!!!!

Comments

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Adelle Hopkins said…
I had been having serious issues with my husband and we had been married for 3 year with a baby, He just suddenly changed and started cheating on me on several occasion, He was hurting me in so many ways I never thought possible. I was at the stage of loosing my marriage. I discussed my situation with my best friend and she highly recommend I contact Dr Oshun the spiritualist for help. which I humbly did, I demanded a love spell from the Doctor. With hope and faith everything went to a whole new direction after he finished the love spell. I got everything I wanted and wished for, my husband is back to the man I got married to. You can contact Dr Oshun, because he saved my marriage from crashing.
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