I was a student once ridiculed by many, I was a broken heart, I was the one who thought that life is as simple as I plan.I was the one who cried over losing in exams.I was the one who struggled to keep up promises made to my family.I was the one who was least cared by my friends.
So I feel that I am qualified enough to write about HOLDING ON DESPITE DIFFICULTIES.
Life is always full of surprises
No one knows what is to come by the next moment.Yet many of us fill our minds with full of expectations.When our expectations are beaten by the challenges life gives us, we get disturbed.It is a common thing where people with dreams often are bogged down by smallest disturbances in their plans.Perhaps this happens because those slightest difficulties seem much bigger to them at that moment and they stop there.We often hear many students especially in intermediate stage committing suicides for reasons like, not getting good rank etc., Many youngsters end their lives for a love failure! This is not because they hate life but it is because of their inability to look beyond that point of misery.If someone told them that ranks don't matter too much these days, and they can settle well in life even with average scores, those young minds would not have faced that trauma and would not have ended their lives.A single love failure is not worth sacrificing a precious life but the poor soul was incapable of realizing it at that moment,result.......loss of life!!!
So it is always advisable to be prepared for the surprises that life gives you- sweet and bitter.Have a dream, have a plan, if something else is planned for you in life then accept it with a smile without regrets.It is the hard truth of life.After all, life is a movie with fun, love, betrayal, failure, success, satisfaction, disappointment ...and everything within it."When the movie is peaceful feel like a protagonist, if it includes hardships think like a viewer".
Difficulties are for your good
"You cannot appreciate light if you have not seen darkness"
It is absolutely true in one's life.You do not know the importance of money unless you suffer at least once out of lack of money.The real meaning of love is taught to you only when you experience a heartbreak.The lesson a difficulty or a loss teaches you is far more powerful and impactful than anything else.So when a difficulty hits on you, feel glad that you are going to learn a profound lesson.
"There was never a night or a problem that could defeat sunrise or hope"
The only way to get out of a difficult situation is to have a hope that you can get out of it.Have faith in yourself.Problems are the real testing times of the strength of your conviction to hold on to your dreams, to hold on to your life.Prove yourself worthy in that test and you will win the rest of your life.Hope is the candle that can pierce through utter darkness and will show you the path towards light.Mind you, there is always light at the end of the tunnel, all you need is to pass through the tunnel with the hope that there is light.
My biggest challenge in life changed from time to time.As I've already mentioned, once it was my status in college, after I rose above that, it became my heart break and now it is the feeling of nostalgia as I am away from all my near and dear ones to pursue my ambitions.Whatever the struggle be, this always resonates in my heart "Difficulties do not come to destroy you.They come to help you realize your hidden potential and power.Let the difficulties know that you are too difficult!!!
-A .P. J.
RESPECT.
Good luck
Bye.
Note:‘This post is a part of Write Over the Weekend, an initiative for Indian Bloggers by BlogAdda.’
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