The magic behind every relationship....

Hellow, I am back with another item of self-improvement rather, I would say this as self-protection.This article is the first in the series of articles that I will write on human relationships and management of heart breaks.
Human relations are of different kinds -parents-children relationships, Friendships, love etc., Whatever is the relationship, it must give you strength and support.It must help you to discover your inner self.It must be an enabling force for you to climb greater heights in your personal life.
The underlying secret thread, the magic, that keeps these relationships alive is love.
To write on love......I must think a bit because it is nothing and everything at a time.It gives immense strength to a father to work harder even on the eleventh hour only to see the smile on the face of his beloved child.It is the force that keeps a mother alive surviving all odds from maternity pains to patriarchial ills of subjugation and exploitation only to see her daughter emancipated. It is that intense emotion that makes two unknown, disconnected individuals, share anything and everything.It is this emotion that keeps friends as friends forever.And then, finally, it is LOVE that makes a boy sing praises of his girl and the girl to endure all her difficulties only to see her BOY as her MAN.
So, I will put my insights on these relationships and my analysis on this magic-LOVE, in my subsequent articles.
Will come back soon....
BYE..

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